What's the first thing you would check b4 diving into a pool?
THE DEPTH!!! (which a huge number of quadriplegics would attest)
Also, if its not a pool, say a beautiful lagoon like u see in the Northern Territory (crocs etc), you have to check even more carefully - it makes sense - right?
People can be as shallow & as treacherous as any body of water,
yet I have seen & still see people "diving" into relationships & finding their lives "crippled"/changed forever.
However, the Good News is, there is a miraculous healer we all have access to; we only have to ask & give it over to The Lord.